>>5431As I understand it, the woman's clitoris (the visible part) is analogous to the head of our penis, and the bulb of the vestibule and the crura (the upside down 'V' looking thing) is analogous to the different sections of the shaft of our penis. When aroused, the bulb become engorged with blood and inflates, and the clitoris becomes erect similar to how our penis does. Thus, stimulating the clitoris is similar to rubbing the tip and head of our penis, which is to say it is very arousing and enjoyable but can easily become overstimulating and painful.
With that in mind I think the best way to stimulate her clitoris is with medium-strength but firm pressure and slower, rhythmic movements, like going in circles, up and down or in a figure 8 pattern, and then just applying light pressure to it as shes orgasming with no movement. As for the other parts, I think that when shes aroused and the bulbs are swollen, they can be made to rub against the crura by insertions to her vagina (like your penis or fingers), which causes the bulb to flare out since they move to the side. I think also that these two parts rubbing together provides her a similar sensation to what we get when our shaft is stroked and squeezed. I also believe this to be the reason why girth is more important for her enjoyment than length; while length certainly looks more impressive a larger girth makes your penis better at stimulating this friction between her "shaft".
Given the structure of this area, I think the best way to stimulate a woman towards orgasm would be to apply upwards pressure, so when fucking her to sort of "lever" your penis upwards (easiest when in missionary) or when fingering to focus more on moving your fingers up and down rather than in or out.
Some other thoughts:
-Arousal is mostly mental, for both men and women. Have you ever seen those erotic artists with terrible art skills making a lot of money on Patreon? The art is supplemental, the part that excites people enough to part with their money is the ideas and fantasies the artist explores. Engaging in a fetish you both enjoy like role playing or something will do more to excite her and bring her to orgasm than physical techniques, though both play a role.
-Women are largely submissive, they mostly derive excitement from men doing as they please with them, its a reason why things such as spanking are largely turn-ons for women. If a woman detects subconsciously or otherwise that what you are doing is for her pleasure entirely and not at least slightly for yours it will largely be a turn off. The thought running through an aroused woman's mind is probably something along the lines of "What's he gonna do with me?"
-Don't know how much stimulating the actual vaginal canal or her cervix does for her pleasure, I don't think there's an analogous structure in men. I hear women talking about a need to feel "filled" when aroused, so there's that.
Let me know if this is in line with or against any of your experiences, curious if there's alternate methods of physical stimulation that also work.