/r9k/ - ROBOT9999

>>44178 (OP)
Eat my reheated semen

>where do i begin with becoming less retardedly autistic about the concept of romance and intimacy
if you mog hard enough then foids will overlook your neurodivergence. im neurotypical and around 3-4/10 on the looks scale but im khv just because my face is so fucked. maybe if you can find a female whos willing to put up with your spergouts or has a mental disorder herself then things would be easier because shes more understanding of your experience, but then again this is just a guess. personally, i avoid talking to foids as much as possible because i am acutely aware of how they view me as a grotesque subhuman before ive even opened my mouth, so i have no reason to speak to them- they will never have any sort of positive feelings, either romantic or non romantic, towards me on the sole basis of them having to endure seeing my hideous, malformed face. its made me develop a bitter resentment for most people because of their superficial judgements, but i understand the evolutionary reasoning behind it. theres nothing that can be done about it

go for an autistic girl or somrthing, she'll probably relate. only go for a high functioning one doebeit. level 3/low functioning autists are borderline down syndrome retards. I have autism btw so I can relate.

>>44181
i don't really care about what the foids think in this matter, they can hate me or tolerate me it makes no difference. I'm content never being successful romantically if I at least am able to be genuine and authentic in all my attempts. It's on this front I've constantly failed in. Whether from fear and insecurity or some other subconscious machination I feel like i lose myself at any stage of pursuit

>>44183
Improve yourself and only then start thinking about dating.
You got bigger problems.

>>44182
I think finding my kind of people is the real struggle here, I don't know where to find girls to socialize with. Where do the shut ins go out to?
>>44185
i think this is the truth i keep ignoring. I understand the concepts of self improving with discipline fitness and health, but I don't really know where to begin with improving as a social animal.

>>44187
The biggest problem with self-improvement is that it's a highly personal thing. The best advice I can give you is to start really thinking about raisin. Try to understand where exactly your problems lie and why they're there. Just work yourself into your "social brain" to understand why it's not doing what you want.

>>44189
i'm able to identify problems and originate the functions behind them. But it doesn't mean much when I don't know what I should be doing instead. I liked the Socrates virtue ethics meme approach of things, but i think in order to really change I need a more definitive blueprint to model myself off of. I look towards what i can emulate in my peers, but that goes back to the problem i feel about insincerity. But ig that's the paradox of wanting to change yourself.

>i'm not a trucel i'm nothing like you people o algo

> I can only preach at them like I'm talking to an animal

Calm down, it sounds like your worried you will be eaten alive. While that comes with image board culture, if you give off that energy in a post it WILL attract the piranhas.

>i'm decently attractive and fit.
You have confidence in your looks. That's good!

>I have moments of real connection with strangers and friends throughout my days, but when it comes to anything with approaching women i feel like the well is poisoned, subconsciously it feels like i'm committing some sort of crime against society and myself by trying to converse with them.

I think i am getting an idea of what is going on with the green text up top. You sound like you are confrontational when you are nervous. This is a conversation not a gun fight, you won't die if they get the first shot. Being scared of women is normal, I don't trust them because i have seen women do some horrific things with smiles on their faces and gaslight everyone about their actions. Foids are generally emotionally attuned and they can detect if you are nervous a mile away. If you go in with the mindset that this will be a fight, well foids will pick up on it and the very nasty ones will turn it into a fight.

>>44195
Ok, then first thing you have to do is analyze past situations. How did you feel in that conversation? when did you start preaching at them? when did your power level slip? What are your regrets? How did you feel talking to the strangers? how did you feel talking to the foid? Sit down and replay these situations in a quiet place, ask yourself what you could have done differently, and work with that. Experience is meaningless if you don't leverage it.

You are on a good start and want to improve. One think i tell friends here is that you are looking for your forever GF/wife. start off small. see if you can get along with the foid. if you don't just move on. Life is NOT about sex. don't let society peer pressure you into screwing around.

Also a warning: The government will be garnishing paychecks for delinquent student loans. So in the upcoming months the dyed haired lunatics will be changing their tunes and trying to settle down. you do NOT want to be involved with a foid who has massive debt. that will ruin your credit rating.

>>44200
>Experience is meaningless if you don't leverage it.
when i do reflect on my social experience, I think you are right about me getting confrontational.To analyze the past, I think very logically, I'm INTP if you believe in the psychology psuede astrology. I think it leads me to form my thoughts and words into a naturally argumentative structure. I'm gonna reflect on this more. Thank you for your wisdoms, I appreciate your effort posts.

>i'm decently attractive and fit.
>i'm not a trucel i'm nothing like you people
im 6'3 and a 6/10. everyone thinks this you know? you are just an average incel
you can talk to people but not to women becuase women are not people and you can see it from your autism

just talk to girls thesame way u talk to guys
but without the mean jokes
thaat's literally it

>>44234
I appreciate all of you who are honestly trying to improve. It's hard, it's harder than when i was young. The best i can do is give what i feel is good advice. A lot of you had bulldozer parents and never had the chance to figure things out on your own when you were young.

Hang in there guys. One day you're going to be the guys that are giving advice. It's weird at first but that's the nature of time.

>>44178 (OP)
Why are you trying to interact with foids?
You should only interact with them for reproductive purposes.
They only see you as a resource. If you don't reciprocate you are a fool.