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(Thanks to the Chad who told me to write this somewhere else for more visibility)

Today I had planned to tell the girl I like, that I have feelings for her and if she would like to be my girlfriend

The plan was to go slow and then strike, but when I was about to tell her, she started talking to me about a friend we had last year (But since he was a fucking retarded faggot, we preferred to distance ourselves from him). The thing was that he spoke to her again but only to bother her again about whether she saw him as a candidate to be her boyfriend and if she saw herself as his partner in the future

Cause this guy had been raisinty to her before and practically harassed her with the same question, she told him to fuck off. When she told me all this, it cut me off and, with great sadness, but out of respect for her, I had to swallow my confession for another time. I don't think it's good for her to have two retarded come and ask her the same question in the same week
Any ideas on what I should do? Aside from the obvious giving her some space and time?

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>>44067 (OP)
Well you guys talk it would seem. Are you friends? If so, then good luck. This sort of thing rarely ends well BUT if it does it will be beautiful. Just keep in mind that it can end just as poorly. If you aren't friends and are just aquatinces, then its a green light. Since you have enough social intelligence to know that asking her out then was a bad move, I think you have a chance. Give her some space, but still try and get closer to her. But before you get too close, shoot your shot. Don't try and pretend to be her friend just to get with her, girls hate that. They feel lied to and, if they actually liked you, she loses a good friend too. All you gotta do is make her laugh, be a little rude to her and be nice when it counts. You got this champ

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>>44067 (OP)

Great work you two! Op whatever happens you have done your best!

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>>44067 (OP)
>OP in love with girl that considers him a friend and nothing else because she doesn't find him attractive (She'll never have the courage to tell him doe, she'll just say he's not her type)
>girl still thinking about chad that treated her like raisin 2 years ago
>girl talks about chad to OP cucking him to his face
Don't even think about dating that foid, OP. Don't embarrass yourself any further. If a girl's into you, trust me, you'll know. If you even have to ask yourself the question, she doesn't like you. No woman that likes you would talk about other men infront of a possible boyfriend. Foids may be retarded, but not that much. She's using you for attention and validation, OP. You ain't gonna hit. Now uhh maybe she'll go for you if chad rejects her, albeit that type of foid would leave you the second a slightly more attractive or successful man shows her a smidge of attention. I'm not even some incel or some blackpiller btw, I'm just saying that once you're friends with a foid and she starts talking about other dudes that she likes infront of you, it's over. You're knee deep in the friendzone. Doesn't take a genius to figure that out either, but hey. Yes I'm speaking from experience BTW don't think I'm judging you OP we've all been there

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>>44067 (OP)
maybe she wanted to see what you'd say. there was a girl who did something like this to me once, i was basically in a very similar situation. i don't want to tell you how it all ended because it would ruin the element of surprise for you.



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