>>43782 (OP)Yeah, i get that too, and that is NORMAL! when we don't feel that way that's when we have become the dreaded coomer. It's also bad when you don't really feel an orgasm anymore, that it just happens and you have this sense of loss. I am having a hard time articulating it. I have been a coomer for, god, almost 30 years, and it's VERY hard to stop when you have been doing this for so long. it's a hard cycle to break.
hang in there. Remember this feeling and when the temptation comes back use it to help you.